Check Out This Sexy Chick!

It’s a simple calculation. If you believe that teaching boys not to rape will lead to the eradication of all rape in our society, then let me know we can expect that to happen. How long will it take? How much teaching? How can we make certain everyone with a male human in their lives do the teaching? Got these answers? No? Then we need to teach girls and women how to protect themselves. This CLEARLY does not mean to not teach boys to not rape but you are deeply naive if you believe every boy is going to follow those teachings. We will be rid of rape as soon as we get rid of lying, stealing and killing. Until then, give girls and women the tools to protect themselves. Not doing so does a disservice to them.

I’ve known and still know rape victims. Three things I’ve learned from them is that (1) it’s never ever the victim’s fault, (2) rape is one of the most evil things human do to one another (3) and as a father of a future daughter (I assume) I’m going to give her all the tools and teachings she needs to protect herself from those monsters (self defense classes, high self esteem, body language reading skills, weapons training and etc).

Get this through your thick heads, the idea of giving women the tools to protect themselves is NOT victim blaming. It’s victim prevention. Just like teaching a child to not talk to strangers, follow strangers or take candy from a stranger is not about blaming the child but about protecting him or her against predators, we aught to be giving girls and women what they need to protect themselves against predators like R Kelly. Do all the things!

Perfect answer.

sooo you a rough sex blog preaching feminism? fuckin weird

Look man. I don’t give a fuck if i’m knuckle deep in her ass hole and she’s covered in cum and tied to my bed frame, I still hold her equal to me.

828 wnc

Reblog if you love getting spun and horny with your area code

girls deserve sloppy head too

Where are you? ;)

I’d give my tit for some blow right now

Reblog if you desperately need to get fucked.

TRUTH.

Signs of a fantastic Dom

We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom

They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went

They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether you’re in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE

Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)

They aren’t afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive

Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but it’s not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a fun “add on”, but it’s NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).

They are concerned for your safety, but don’t overdo it. They want you safe, but don’t take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.

They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (”skeletons in your closest”), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just don’t feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesn’t need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where you’ve been, etc.)

They trust you. A Dom who doesn’t trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.

When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT a “me against you” style argument (”I WON THE ARGUMENT”, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements

They respect your hard limits. Doms know hard limits don’t mean “convince me”. They know to stay the fuck away from hard limits with a ten foot freaking pole.

Yup