"There Are Only Two Answers To Sex: FUCK YES, And NO. ANYTHING That Is Not An Enthusiastic FUCK YES Is

"There are only two answers to sex: FUCK YES, and NO. ANYTHING that is not an enthusiastic FUCK YES is a NO." Reblog every time.

I’ve never done this before, but I’m going to rant for a minute, so buckle up.  This is to boys (not an age, but a behavior set) and this is about rape culture.

If you have to convince her, it’s NOT consent. If you coerce her, it’s NOT consent. If you get her high/drunk in order to go along, it’s NOT consent.  If you get your girlfriend to convince her to join you, it’s NOT consent. Buying her gifts, taking her out to dinner, buying her drinks, does NOT mean she owes you sexual favors. Buying her things or being “nice” to her in hopes of having sex with her is coercion.  There is no situation, for any reason, where she owes you sex. She does not owe you sex. She does not owe you sex. She does not owe you sex. Say it with me She does not owe you sex. She does not owe you sex. She does not owe you sex. State your intentions. Don’t be a wimp. Don’t invite her to “chill” and then get her drunk and try to wear her down. That is NOT consent. Don’t tell her your intentions are innocent when they are not.  I can tell you this, I respect women too much to NOT be honest with them about my intentions. And you would not believe how much women appreciate me stating my intentions. And I say this on full brag - you would not believe the beautiful women who come after me for my attention. It’s not because of my looks, it’s because I’m confident and I am respectful.  Don’t be a coward. Shoot your shot. If she’s not interested, LEAVE IT ALONE.  You are NOT owed sex. By anyone. Ever.  You have to earn it.  If you don’t have enough skill to flirt with a girl and get her to enthusiastically consent to sex with you, you have one option: accept her answer, and go improve your game for the next time you shoot your shot.  There are only two answers to sex: FUCK YES, and NO. ANYTHING that is not an enthusiastic FUCK YES is a NO. Getting nudes from a girl is a privilege and a sacred trust. She does not owe you nudes. But you DO owe her her dignity and privacy.  Sending unsolicited dick pics is sexual harassment.  Sending unsolicited porn is sexual harassment. NO is a complete answer, and does not require an explanation.  Here are some examples of appropriate responses when girls say “no”: -”Okay” -”Alright” -”No worries” -”Okay thank you anyway” -”Thank you, I wish you the best” -”No harm done, thank you for your time” A girl can remove consent at any time. And yes, that means any. time.  The cause of rape culture is men. It’s on us men to fix it. That means changing our behaviors and attitudes in how we interact with women, and that means we change what we tolerate and promote with our friends and masculine culture.  I’m raging at the low bar that we have set and that we tell women is acceptable. We can do better. We must do better.  Men: do better Women: demand better (edit because people are misreading this: don’t let men get away with this. Call them out. Don’t be with guys who do this. Don’t accept it as “that’s just the way things are now days” - which is what I hear a lot of from young women)