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as much as I hate to admit it. women as a collective are fucking stupid and uphold patriarchal practices because they believe it's in their best interest

sorry for shooting your dog with a crossbow you have to understand Im american our education system is in the gutter most of us were never taught that killing peoples beloved pets with medieval projectile weaponry is wrong and we're all too burnt out to research it on our own time

Those most addicted to this physicality obsessed reality are panicking. They know that this world can only operate the way it does, a hedonistic free for all, when there’s a nonstop production of new bodies. Ask these people why they really love life, and the answer has nothing to do with family. It’s just a stand in to get their personal needs met, and release built up emotional tension. Otherwise, children would be revered. We all know that isn’t true, AT ALL.

Anti-child is what the vast majority of families are. They mistakenly believe hoarding bodies is what makes a family just as holding another person captive is “true love.” Once again, how are children typically treated by their parents, and communities? Why has every woman had uncomfortable encounters while underage, if there’s allegedly so many family oriented people around? I don’t know a single family who has actually excommunicated an abuser, and the community usually steps in to offer more support for the predator.

Freedom to do what you want, is code for no longer contributing to the world’s selfish schemes. It upsets the masses because humans are each other’s favorite resource, and more people are waking up to this fact. They need new vulnerable and moldable people to extract from. Look how agitated they’ve become because consumption at an excessive rate is no longer as accessible. They don’t really hate corporations, only the fact that they’re pricing their products too high. Just like their frustration that more people, especially women, are placing a higher value on themselves.

I adore children, and believe they can be raised in an actual loving environment. That will never be true for the family system, which is an extension of the heterosexual “relationship” dynamic, built upon submission and domination. Those most eager to have children can’t wait to begin projecting gendered expectations, and continuing cycles. Fresh out of the womb and they’re slapping gigantic bows onto their daughter’s heads, and claiming their sons are “ladies men.” Throw in the dysfunction at home due to mom and dad’s maladjusted marriage, and you end up with the average citizen. No self esteem to speak up, preoccupied with physicality, and eager to ravage others.

desperately and constantly needing external validation for your supposed identities is literal proof that those identities do not belong to you. a brown haired person doesn’t need other people endlessly affirming them brown haired to be reminded that they are brown haired. they just are brown haired.

I honestly believe that women who are male-partnered/sexually active/ have kids/plans to have kids don't have much to say about trans people. Since a lot of arguments against trans people is the damage they cause to their bodies through sugeries and hormones (usually towards tifs) or that they're predators (towards tims) fall completely flat. These women do have a predator with them (their male partner), so why be upset over a male pretending to be female when you don't care about safety to begin with. Second, why can't tifs damage their bodies when you also damage your own body and mind through having sex and childbirth. You are a complete contradiction. You can't be against them and yet do the same as them just in different font.

Women will complain about abortion bans and being treated like breeding mules but these same women (who are most likely moms) will shut down conversations that childfree women attempt to have about our experiences.

I stay within childfree spaces. I follow mostly childfree women on social media. I don't go online looking for spaces where mothers are talking about their experiences because I don't care.

However, whenever I go into the comment section of a childfree woman's post I see a lot of mothers commenting. Some of them criticizing, some giving backhanded compliments or their motherly approval nobody asked for, but what I find most interesting is how they will talk amongst themselves within the comments on posts or pages that are geared towards childfree women.

They know who's reading these posts, they know it's predominantly childfree looking for support or a place to share our experience being childfree. But still, I see comments along the lines of: "yeah yeah being childfree is great BUT LADIES CAN WE PLEASE DISCUSS THE BEAUTY OF MOTHERHOOD? ☺️"

Women police other women back into the roles that they simultaneously bitch about.

Whining about motherhood and how hard it is to a man but if a woman says she's childfree and wants fuck all to do with kids then she'll weaponize her societal status of mom to size up that woman and try to make her seem lesser.

It's passive aggressive and attention seeking behavior.

The Childfree Are Ungovernable

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The Childfree Are Ungovernable

Why the capitalist ruling class wants you to have as many children as possible.