“An Open Letter To Non-Vaxxers: Tonight, While Enjoying A Nice Dinner, I Got A Call From The Director

“An Open Letter to Non-Vaxxers: Tonight, while enjoying a nice dinner, I got a call from the director of my son’s preschool. She was calling to tell me that they had made the decision to put my son in a different class because two children in the class he was supposed to be in have “opted out” of their vaccines. This may not sound like a big thing. He is still in the Tuesday-Thursday class, and since he doesn’t start school until next Tuesday, it’s not like he has to get readjusted to a whole new class. No harm, no foul. Actually, this is a big deal–a very big deal. You see, my son is immunocompromised. He has cancer. He was fully vaccinated and supporting the whole “herd immunity” thing before his cancer diagnosis, but that darn chemo wiped out his immunity to the communicable diseases against which he had already been vaccinated. So, parents who choose to not vaccinate because you feel it’s the “right choice for your family”, I would like to thank you. Thank you for adding yet another worry to my plate and my husband’s plate. You see, we already worry about a lot–it’s an unfortunate part of your child having cancer–you worry every night. On top of worrying about things like relapse, organ toxicity brought on by chemo, debilitating late effects of chemo, secondary cancers brought on by chemo, the mental effects of having more than three years of painful treatment, we now get to worry about, of all things, measles. And mumps. And whooping cough. And chicken pox. Let me explain something about having a child with cancer to you: everything is robbed from your child in some form or another. Friends, Halloween, Christmas, play dates, school. It’s all taken away at some point or another and in some form or another because we have to protect our children from germs, because if they catch the wrong germs during the worst part of treatment, they can die. My son was isolated from everyone except immediate family for an entire year. For parents whose children are going through chemo, the decision to send them to school is a momentous one. It requires a leap of faith and trust in the surrounding community, in your child’s teachers and administrators, and in the families sending their children to school. It requires herd immunity. Now, even though my son is now in a different class than your unvaccinated children, I get to worry about him using the communal bathroom, the playground, and even walking around the halls with them. If there is an outbreak of measles in, say, Austin this winter, I won’t know if you have relatives in Austin and went to go see those relatives for Uncle Bobby’s birthday. I won’t know if your child was exposed to measles at the Austin Chuck-E-Cheese and then showed up at school on Tuesday. Oh, I’m sure you’ll do your due diligence and call the school to inform everyone that your child has come down with a case of the measles once it appears, but, the damage is done–the exposure to my immunocompromised child has already happened. It’s too late. Your choice just earned him a ticket to the hospital. Your choice just earned him a lot of shots and more toxic drugs in the desperate effort to stave off whatever disease your unvaccinated child passed to him. If, God forbid, he does come down with that disease, your choice just earned him a trip to the Pediatric ICU for a while–days, maybe weeks. Your choice may cost us our son. Who knows–it depends on how his already stressed body handles everything. People like to say that in choosing to not vaccinate, they are making the “best choice for their family”, and that, after all, their children are the ones at risk, not other people’s children. No, sorry, you’re wrong. Choosing to home school is a choice that is made in the best interest of a family–it impacts nobody but your family. Choosing to eat all organic and locally grown food is a choice that impacts nobody but your family. For that matter, choosing to eat nothing but fast food and frozen meals is a choice that impacts nobody but your family. Choosing to not vaccinate impacts my family and my immunocompromised son. It impacts the teacher who is pregnant and teaching your non-vaccinated child. It impacts the man going through chemo who happened to be behind you in the grocery store when your unvaccinated child sneezed. It impacts the mom next to you at the pick up line at school who is on immunosuppressive drugs for her rheumatoid arthritis and who is bending down to hug her child just as your unvaccinated child coughs. Your “choice” has repercussions for your community. Part of the cost of living in a first world country is that you have to do things that support the community in which you live. You pay taxes to pay for the police that respond to your 911 calls, to pay for the teachers who teach your children, and to pay for roads to be plowed and paved. You obey traffic laws to ensure an orderly flow of traffic. You don’t shout “fire” in a crowded theater because to do so would cause pandemonium and chaos. Sometimes, to live in a place with the privileges we enjoy here in America, you suck it up and do things you don’t want to do because it’s for the communal good. If everyone chose otherwise, we would not be a first world country. We would be a country without laws, roads, and schools. We would be a country overrun with disease. Your responsibility to your community is to vaccinate your child. The number of people who actually, literally, physically can’t have vaccines is extraordinarily small. The number of people who choose to not vaccinate is not–it’s growing. These people cite a vague unease about the number of vaccines a child gets or statistics they learned from Internet memes on autism. They confess conspiracy theories about Big Pharma and how it’s all a ploy to get doctors and pharmacists rich. They share anecdotes of a college friend’s neighbor’s son who got so sick from his vaccine he was hospitalized. They say their child got incredibly sick from the one round of vaccines he or she got at his 2 month visit, and they said they’re not vaccinating anymore. Guess what–if your child is sitting here today, talking, walking, eating, laughing, playing, and learning, he or she wasn’t that ill from the vaccine. He or she got a fever and reacted to the vaccine–it doesn’t mean they had an “adverse” reaction. I am horrified, non-vaxxers, that you are so quick to forget the lessons of history. You’re spoiled and selfish because you have never seen the horrors of a society in which vaccines are not available. Perhaps you should talk to my mother about her neighbor growing up–the one who contracted German measles while pregnant with her third child. That third child was born deaf and with brain damage, thanks to his mother catching that communicable–and now preventable–disease while pregnant. Perhaps you should talk to anyone over the age of 60 about what it was like when polio was around–how nobody was allowed to go swimming or use public drinking fountains for fear of catching that dreaded–and now preventable–disease. Perhaps you should talk to the parents of a child with cancer whose daughter spent a month in the Pediatric ICU during treatment because she caught chicken pox–a preventable disease–from an unvaccinated classmate. Perhaps you should take a trip to a third world country and explain to them why they should not be lining up in droves to get their children vaccinated by the Red Cross or other relief organizations. Perhaps, better yet, you should keep your children out of school.”

— Alex Pomadoni via Imgur (via whatthesimonsays)

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6 years ago

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I’m sick to my fucking stomach

The map flag had the same color scheme as the pan flag and now they’re switching to the bi flag

If you see anyone with this flag or any variation

Run

Don’t fucking hesitate to block because pedos are now using this new “flag” and other forms of it

Can I get a signal boost from larger accounts? Start tagging people so this will spread

Yes. @umikochannart @uselesspileofstressandsadness. @the-cumberbatchs-stupid-pengwin. @theycallmebucky @ironmess And every one else

Disgusting.

@mscaptainjones @bibi-rogers @mikey-way-worships-unicorns @suck-it-pence-im-gay-and-proud @late-to-everything

Thank you for tagging me @handy-dandy-chromebook

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Thanks for tagging me @pansexual-clock and @mikey-way-worships-unicorns!

Y’all, this is disgusting. We need to stop it immediately and acknowledge that they are PEDOPHILES truthfully, I don’t even gen this think they deserve the respect to be referred to as MAPs.

@pete-wetzel, @late-to-everything, @chinesewaffles2, @yeemotrashthings

Can y’all give me a signal boost and maybe back me up on this?

I gotchu, anyone who sees this please reblog at least once its important especially for younger followers so they don’t end up in a situation they’ll regret

As a bisexual, I find this disgusting. Spread awareness of this, please.

@simongremory @scarredandsick @kingantlion @sarcasm20202

Thanks mate.

@not-my-brain @justtheodorastuff @all-hail-mono-onion @sea-anon

Yikes….

@all you guys…. better spread this…

Please help spread this even if you don’t have many followers

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oh god I don’t even have my kill all the pedos picture because my phone is broken

This is disgusting and horrible please help spread the word!!! (Sorry if I didn’t tag you I’m just thinking on the spot)

@pippip-cheerio @smartest-of-them-all @queen0ftheunderworld @athena-the-wisdom-goddess @the-sadie-kane @the-meg-has-spoken @the-princess-needs-you @leo-valdez-fire-boi @ghostkingnikodiangelo @house-elf-protection @iris-the-rainbow-queen @dead-kid-with-a-garrote @demigodseameg16 @connor-son-of-hermes @godess-of-fireplaces @magic-goddesshecate @travis-stoll-annebeths-knife @daughter-ofares2018 @drewtanaknah @mitchell-the-bitchell @silena-beauregard10 @loony-the-dreamer @ginny-quidditch-weasley @thatmarauderpadfoot @big-boi-zeus @poseidon-water-boy @persassy-basson @pollux-wine-child @collector-of-lost-souls @hearthstonetherunedude @blitzenthefashonista @swagness-chasing-me @not-dead-girl-bianca @not-your-thoth @reynathesaviorofrome @savior-of-rome @bubbly-emo-bitch @yourlocalfrenchie @demigodingryffindor7 @im-a-fangirl-i-dont-needa-life @immortal-death-mermaid @lester-apollodopoulos @tired-and-shouldnt-be-here

This is fucking disgusting MAPs please get the FUCK off my blog

@biggest-gaudiest-patronuses @I-am-a-fish @incorrectmarauders @pjotexting @percyjacksonincorrectquotes

if you’re a pedo kindly unfollow any of my blogs you might be following and block me while you’re at it. thanks

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Yeah if you’re a pedophile please know I hate you with every fiber of my being and genuinely hope you die.

SIGNAL BOOST

What the fuck

BOOST

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The fuck?

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Oh hell no.

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i don’t even know some of y'all but

this is important.

@glitched-player

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I know some of you may not know I even exist but it’s worth a shot.

Please signal boost

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REBLOG LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS I KNOW NONE OF YALL KNOW WHO I AM BUT STILL BIATCH

Thank you for tagging me @thealmightypangolin

I DONT PERSONALLY KNOW ANY OF YOU VERY WELL BUT I KNOW YOU GUYS ARE AGAINST PEDOPHILES, sorry if I tagged you and you were already tagged

SIGNAL BOOST, REBLOG

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sapphic-bottom

6 years ago

Why would anyone want to consume it!?

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5 years ago

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5 years ago

17 calorie AMAZING strawberry ice-cream!

okay guys so I was super craving something cold and sweet and tried this out and this tasted SO GOOD. If you want it a bit more creamy add more of the milk of your choice, but this proportion is my fave so far!

(This recipe makes 2 servings, but I could only eat one it’s so filling - I had it for lunch)

🔆 6 medium frozen strawberries (24 cal)

🔆 40 ml of your milk of choice (Alpro coconut almond - 10 cal)

🔆 0 cal sweetener (stevia)

🔆 Lots of ice!

So place all your ingredients in a blender, blend until all the ice has broken down and enjoy! If its runny pop into the freezer for 10 mins and it should firm up to more ice-cream-like consistency 💖

17 Calorie AMAZING Strawberry ice-cream!

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sapphic-bottom

5 years ago

This isn’t related to my blog aesthetic but I’m tired of seeing posts where people are making others paranoid that they’re in a coma or something. You’re not. I know lots of us know it’s just a bad “joke,” but some people don’t have the luxury of being able to believe that after seeing others tell them otherwise.

You’re awake. Everything is okay.

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sapphic-bottom

5 years ago

As someone who hates wrapping presents, I found this really helpful

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5 years ago

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4 years ago

One of my favorite quotes of all time is this line from hamlet: "there are more things in heaven and earth, horatio, than are dreamed of in your philosophy." It's a reminder that there is so much we don't know about this world and this universe and there is even more that we don't know that we don't know. With this said, something I wish I didn't know is that a whale pisses about 974 liters in one go.

Guys I can't keep defending this website

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sapphic-bottom

4 years ago

also I learned about this project called “queering the map.” the idea is that in the past gay neighborhoods and gay spaces were very clearly defined bc it just wasn’t safe to be yourself anywhere else. as lgbt+ people become more visible and accepted many feel that we are losing our connection to those spaces

so every dot on this map is basically someone’s queer experience: coming out, meeting their future wife, seeing another gay man in public for the first time, anything you can think of that truly left a mark on them

it started in Montreal and is primarily English-language with most pins dropped in the US, Canada, and Europe, but there are people all over the world who’ve shared their experiences. it’s great to look at places near you but it’s also great to see that even people in places you thought were the middle of nowhere are happy with themselves and finding community and living their lives

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6 years ago