[talking About The Body I Inhabit] “idk I Just Work Here”

date your friends - by which i do not mean you must literally date your friends but by which i mean go out to dinner with your friends, buy your friends flowers, tell your friends you love them, write your friends love letters, play your friends songs that make you think of them, help your friends with moving and doctors appointments and listen to their worries and joys. love one another so entirely and i promise the world will feel so much brighter and you will have a community full of love

new drug called girlfriend laughter just hit the streets one hit and your feel your soul blossom into ten million flowers

me giving affection: oh man i really hope im not like overstepping my boundaries here. what if i make them uncomfortable? do they feel obligated to say thank you? am i going too far and scaring them? what if i’m annoying?

me receiving affection: AAAAAAAAA!!!!! AAAAAAA!A!!!!!!!AAAAAAAAAAAA

Self regulating is good. That's an useful thing to know.

But honestly, emotional regulation is way more efficient and long term lasting when it consists of piling up like Wild Things, taking care of each other and talking with friends.

“you’re always crashing out” god forbid i have a hobby

i really appreciate people who are gentle with me

I KNOW LOVE IS REAL BECAUSE IM FULL OF IT

My head is loud, I need you to love me louder

I can see them. But I've named them all the same name. And there's terrible confusion.

BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER

2.14 | Innocence