before you date a girl with a mental illness, remember: saying, “you’re beautiful” won’t balance the chemicals in her brain.
and don’t fucking say, “i’ll be here for you, no matter what,” if you don’t mean it.
don’t think you’re fixing her by saying, “i love you.” because you’re not
I want to be your favorite place to go when you’ve had a bad day or a good day.
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Not all addictions are rooted in abuse or trauma, but I do believe they can all be traced to painful experience. A hurt is at the centre of all addictive behaviours. It is present in the gambler, the Internet addict, the compulsive shopper and the workaholic. The wound may not be as deep and the ache not as excruciating, and it may even be entirely hidden—but it’s there. As we’ll see, the effects of early stress or adverse experiences directly shape both the psychology and the neurobiology of addiction in the brain.
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My sweetest Cayla-La made me the most beautiful birthday present including a feather from my favorite bird 💚 right in the heart #sisterlylove #MyFavoriteMonsters
When I was younger, I was sexually assaulted and hurt by this guy I grew up with. I flinch at people's touch. I'm afraid that no one will ever love me because I get nervous when someone gets intimately close. I have scars on my thighs from cutting. I feel as though it would be difficult to love me.
I understand the feeling.. I’ve been through this and I’ve never gone as far as kissing because I hate the near threads of myself.. literally. But, it time things will get better and eventually you’ll be with someone who only wants to protect you, never hurt you. You’re amazing and worthy of life. You need to remember that. Your scars are your battle wounds.. you’re a soldier. You’ll get knocked down a few times before you can actually stay grounded on your feet. I love you. Chin up soldier, the war is almost over.