🌊 Sometimes, The Waves Of Emotions Crash Harder Than Expected. Feeling Deeply Can Be A Blessing And

I turn 42 tomorrow and this year has been a whirlwind of great moments, learning experiences and personal growth. I think I’ve reached that point in my timeline where I’ve shed most of the things that used to annoy or embarrass me, have a positive outlook on a whole new career industry with the completion of my Psychology bachelors degree in October and a great set of friends and family that would do anything for me.

There’s a quote from Anne Of Green Gables that I always think about on special days like birthdays, “It’s not what the world holds for you, it’s what you bring to it.’ The older I become, the less mundane I want my life to be and excitement about trying new things and experiencing untouched territory makes me very excited about the future.

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MASCULINITY AND HOMOSEXUALITY

The problem is that homosexuality and effeminacy are virtually synonymous in the modern public’s mind. All men who love men are stigmatized as being intrinsically effeminate. Men who engage in homosexual sex are expected to embrace gay culture and are believed, especially by other homosexuals, to be ‘girls on the inside’—no matter how they look and behave, or what their interests may be. As I mentioned above, a sense of manhood is important to most men. Yet, simply by acknowledging same-sex desire, men are expected to relinquish their manhood. They must submit to psychological castration. While this may seem like no great loss to effeminate men who never put much stock in manhood, what of those who do hold masculinity in high regard? What of those androphiles who love men and love being men, for whom masculinity is a thing of beauty and value? I don’t love men because I see myself as girlish; I love men because I’ve developed a deep-seated appreciation for men and for masculinity itself. Men fascinate and inspire me. I love them in their finest moments, but also in the midst of struggle. Just watching men is a pleasure; I see in them innumerable qualities that women often fail to appreciate. I appreciate these things precisely because I am a man, because their masculinity is a reflection of my own. And yet, for this, in some perverse twist of reason, I must give up my own manhood? For this, I am regarded as effeminate and expected to entertain myself with girly things? Fuck that. - Jack Donovan

Dive right in. Don't think about what could go wrong or even what could go right. Put blinders on and wade through the tough stuff because that's what is going to help you grow from whatever the experience may be you're facing. Not having any expectations requires a certain amount of courage and the more you don't set your heart on a certain outcome, the more courage it's going to create within yourself to see it through. Now, go forth into the unknown and come back a winner.

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Dating with High Hopes and Non-Negotiables 🌟

In the world of dating, it’s important to keep our hopes high and our standards higher. 💖✨

High hopes fuel our journey, reminding us that love is worth the wait and that the right person will come along at the right time. It’s about believing in the magic of connection and the beauty of shared dreams. 🌠

But let’s not forget the power of non-negotiables. These are the values and qualities we hold dear, the boundaries we set to protect our hearts and ensure we find a partner who truly respects and aligns with our core. They’re not about being picky; they’re about knowing our worth and what we deserve. 💪💫

So, here’s to dating with a heart full of hope and a mind clear on what matters most. Because the right person will not only meet your standards but will surpass them in ways you never imagined. ❤️🌹

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🌟 Embracing a Hopeful Mindset 🌟

Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, but what keeps us moving forward is hope. 💫

Hope isn’t just a feeling; it’s a choice we make every day. It’s the light that guides us through the darkest moments and the belief that tomorrow holds new possibilities. 🌈✨

No matter the challenges you face, remember that hope fuels resilience and ignites the fire within us to keep pushing forward. Stay positive, keep dreaming, and never lose sight of the incredible potential that lies ahead. 💪💖

Tag someone who needs a little hope today. Let’s spread positivity and uplift each other! 🌻

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**Love is Love: Embrace Yourself and Others** 🌈

In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with stereotypes and societal norms, it’s essential to remember that the true beauty lies in embracing who we are, including our sexual orientation and gender identity. This month, and every month, let’s celebrate and support the LGBTQIA+ community by spreading love and acceptance.

It’s not just about tolerance; it’s about full acceptance and celebration of the unique tapestry of identities that make up our world. Whether you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual, or any other identity under the rainbow, you deserve to live authentically and love without fear or judgment.

Remember, self-acceptance is the first step towards embracing others. So let’s be proud of who we are and create a world where love knows no boundaries. Together, we can make a difference. 🏳️‍🌈 #LoveIsLove #Pride #EmbraceYourself #lgbtqia #gayman #lovehasnoboundaries #pittsburghgay #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #loveisblind #pride #mentalhealthmatters #makeadifference #equality #progress #createalifeyoulove

When we’re young, everything seems like it’s coming to an end. The fact is that it’s just beginning. With age there’s wisdom, and humility. Laugh at your mistakes, learn the lessons, and cherish the ride.

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